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Don't let a bad mindset limit your ability to perform
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2015-07-13
Mentality is our attitude towards things. Presumably every employee of our Shennanwei hopes to earn more money, have a smoother career, and live a happier life... The problem is that we can't have everything we want. When these desires cannot be satisfied, what kind of mentality do we use to face them? People with a good mentality don't take pleasure in things, don't take sorrow in themselves, are optimistic, detached and refined, face it calmly, and are contented and happy. People with a bad mentality will become cynical, upset, full of complaints, and full of resentment once their desires cannot be satisfied or encounter unsatisfactory things. This is not only not conducive to our normal work and life, but also inhibits our own abilities. The development of human beings, which in turn affects our physical and mental health, and even ruins our life.
Let me give you a vivid example to illustrate: How much influence does mentality have on a person's ability? One day, several students asked Fromm, a famous American psychologist, about this question. Fromm smiled, without saying a word, and led them into a dark room. Under his guidance, the students quickly walked through this mysterious room that could not be seen. Then, Fromm turned on a lamp in the room. The lamp was dim and yellow with insufficient light. It took a while to get used to it before he could see the things in the room clearly. After the students saw the layout of the room clearly, they couldn't help breaking out in a cold sweat. It turned out that there was a very deep and large pool under the house. In the pool, there were not only a few big crocodiles swimming with their mouths open, but also many kinds of poisonous snakes, some of which were flying high. Head up, "hissing" at them, spitting out a message, provoking it. "How did we get here just now?" The students were even more surprised. It turned out that there was a very narrow single-plank bridge above the pool, and they walked over this single-plank bridge just now. Classmates, you look at me, I look at you, and look at each other in blank dismay, and can't help being afraid for a while. After a pause, Fromm asked, "Who wants to walk across this bridge again?" Everyone's hearts tightened again, and some people turned pale with fright, but no one made a sound. After a while, finally three students stood up timidly. One of the students walked up, like a gymnast stepping on a balance beam, extremely cautious, not daring to breathe, and the speed was many times slower than the first time. The second student stepped on the small wooden bridge tremblingly, trembling involuntarily. Halfway there, a crocodile chased him, which made him cry loudly with a "wow". Later, Fromm chased away the crocodile, and he barely climbed over the small bridge. The third student's legs became weak as soon as he stepped onto the small bridge. He simply lay down on the bridge and crawled slowly across the small bridge. "Crack", Fromm turned on several other lights in the room, and the strong light suddenly illuminated the whole room like daytime. The students rubbed their eyes and took a closer look. It turned out that there was a transparent glass floor under the small wooden bridge, but they couldn't distinguish it because of the dim light just now. "It turns out that the teacher is testing us." The students couldn't help laughing easily. Fromm asked again: "Now, who is willing to pass this small bridge?" The students smiled at each other and rushed to pass the small bridge one by one.
"Didn't you ask how much mentality affects a person's ability? Now I can tell you," Fromm said with a smile, "This bridge is not difficult to walk, but the crocodiles and poisonous snakes under the bridge are very difficult. You created psychological deterrence, so you lost your peace of mind, became confused, panicked, showed various degrees of timidity, and suppressed your abilities." This shows how important a mentality is to a person ah. Facing the same difficulties, when the state of mind is good, the mind is as calm as water, like walking on flat ground;
In fact, each of us lives a state of mind. If the mentality is adjusted well, you can hum ditties while riding a tricycle; if the mentality is not well adjusted, you can complain like driving a BMW. Maybe everyone has heard of this classic sentence.
Having said that, how should we adjust our mentality at work so that our abilities can be fully utilized? Although our mentality is affected by the external environment, the most fundamental reason is our own problems. That is to say, psychological problems are caused by us. If we have a peaceful mind, a normal mind, a healthy mind, and a positive mind, we will have enthusiasm for work and life, and we will have enthusiasm and confidence. Because mentality is a person's mental state, as long as the mentality is good, the spirit will be good, everything is pleasing to the eye, and you will be motivated to do anything.
In Shennanwei, if our working environment makes you feel comfortable, then please cherish everything you have now and show your talents to the fullest. If our working environment often puts you in trouble, then please discover your potential and let us work together to overcome it. The more mature the ears of wheat are, the more they know how to bend down, and the more people know how to bend down, the more mature they will be. Don't let bad attitudes restrict our abilities.
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