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Sharing makes my life no longer lonely
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2015-09-14
Why are we afraid of being alone? Is it because you are afraid that no one will help you when you are in trouble? In fact, help is only assistance, and most of the time we have to rely on our own strength to survive and develop; is it because we are afraid that no one will comfort us when we are sad? We know our own pain best. Even if there is no comfort, we still have a strong character... What we are really afraid of is not what one person does, but what we do and no one to share.
Bacon said: If you tell a friend your happiness, you will get two happiness; but if you tell a friend your sorrow, you will be divided into half of the sorrow. Since sharing means a lot to us, regardless of success or failure, we should boldly share our stories with friends and colleagues, and not let our lives become lonely.
The big boss of a company is about to celebrate his 50th birthday. He is a man with a successful career, but his wife has divorced him long ago, and his children are studying abroad. The employees of the company give him symbolic gifts. My friend, on his birthday, he was sitting alone in the living room drinking.
This day was originally a day to be proud of. The new product developed by him has entered the international market, and the response has been very good. In the company, he was full of ambition and gave bonuses to all employees involved in research and sales. But when he got home, he didn't know who to tell his joy to. He sits in the living room and reflects on himself. He is a violent person who often loses his temper. The secretary around him has changed countless times. He knew that it wasn't someone else's problem, it was his own personality that was too withdrawn. When will these lonely situations end? He drank glass after glass, but no one told him the answer.
The character in the story has huge wealth, achieved remarkable achievements, and has a life to be proud of. Because he doesn’t know how to share it with others, when he is happy, he raises a glass of wine, but no one on the other side cheers to himself. It's just lonely and even more desolate. A person who is nearly 50 years old, but there is no one around him who is willing to share his life with him, even if he uses wine to relieve his sorrow, how much depression can be relieved?
A person who doesn't know how to share will be unhappy because of loneliness even when encountering good things, let alone encountering difficult things? Sharing our difficulties with friends and colleagues does not necessarily require friends to help. As long as a little advice and comfort from friends is enough to give us great support and encouragement to our fragile hearts at the moment, let us gain the courage and confidence to overcome difficulties. The loneliness in the world is the most terrible. With everyone's spiritual support, we will no longer be alone on the way to overcome difficulties.
Keep a sharing mentality at all times, just like you are walking alone on the night road, looking up and seeing the bright stars in the sky, you think it is beautiful, at this time, if you can tell the people around you, you can truly feel happy. On the contrary, if there is no one around, you can only talk to yourself, no amount of stars can make you happy. Learn to share, and you will no longer be alone on the road to success, no longer fighting alone, condense the warmth and strength of the team, and move forward towards your dreams.
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