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Learn to be a happy Shennan micro person
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2015-07-23
What is happiness? I kept searching and pursuing. I remember when I was a student, whenever I saw my brothers and sisters who were in college, I thought they were happier than me. When I was in college, I noticed the brothers and sisters who found satisfactory jobs. I think they are also happier than me. After graduating, I saw my friends and colleagues have their own "nests" one by one, and I felt that they were happier than me. When I got a monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan, I found that some friends in the circle had a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan. I felt that they were all happier than me. When I got a monthly salary of tens of thousands, why didn't the happiness I was looking forward to come as expected? Why haven't I been able to find the happiness that belongs to me for many years?
According to my own standards, I constantly observe the people around me, and I find that there are many people who are not as good as me in economics and other aspects, but when I see them, their faces must always be filled with happy smiles. Why? how about this? I thought about it over and over again ... As time went by, I finally understood: Everyone has their own way of life. In the past, I cared too much about the gap between myself and others, and I just added trouble to myself. In fact, it is not a bad thing for people to be a little confused sometimes, so why not be a little stupid? In the same effort, in the same life, we should pay attention to what we have, not what others have, and only have other people in our eyes, how can we be happy? Happiness is not about having more, but about caring about less.
Now, as an employee of Shennanwei, I try my best not to care about it at work. Because I know that the more I care about, the more I will lose. Caring about small things at work will give me a reputation of being narrow-minded and not generous enough, which will delay my work; caring about small things among colleagues will make me generalize, prejudice people, and affect the relationship between colleagues.
Comparing is worse than comparing. Instead of lamenting that I am not as good as others in some aspects or being jealous of others' good life, it doesn't help. I should concentrate on working hard and spend more time achieving what others take less time to achieve. In fact, there is no shame in this. There is a difference in talent, and the process will naturally be different, but the achievements are the same. When you want to care about it, it is better to compare first, look at those things you don't have, and work hard to get them, and naturally you won't care about them anymore.
In the work and life of Shennanwei, there is an employment relationship between the company and our employees. If we only remember what we have paid and don’t think about the company’s kindness to us, we will accumulate resentment and troubles over time. Don't care, it represents not only a person's wisdom, but also a person's heart. We should learn not to care, only in this way can we be able to do things with ease, not to be burdened by personnel, and to be a happy Shennanwei people.
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